By no means am I the perfect mother, however, I am really feeling some kind of way. I cannot believe this woman gave her baby daddy money for studio time to do rap music.
I could appreciate it more if he had busted a rap to free her from the bondage of prison when she was incarcerated. How do you look out for someone who completely abandoned you during your time of need? He did not step up. She had to get out and lift him up. I'm thinking, YOU FOOL!
Well, truth be known I am feeling hoodwinked right about now. I had sympathy for this woman. It tore at my heart strings that this lady was incarcerated for leaving her children in the car while she went in for a job interview. As a young mother in my early twenties I had three small children I was working to provide for. I know how hard paying for child care can weigh on an already scrapped budget. However, when your babies are involved you do what you have to do.
Government assistance was just not enough money for me to sit around and wait to collect. I had to make money. I liked doing things like going to the movies, going to ice shows, taking my children skating, to the park, out of town, buying them clothes, and doing different things with them. They fueled my fire. I always say if it had not been for them I would have been such a pompous person I would not have been able to stand myself. They were more of a help me find the nurturing part of me than being me. When you have young, helpless souls to look out for just the mere fact they cannot do for themselves was always grace sufficient enough to make sure things happened for them. They did not ask to be in this world. If both parents don't step up one just has to.
I'm saying to this sistah, lady please get your act together. Your children need you. We as black women need you. Now I'm going to probably being getting cross eyed looks from people wondering whether or not we all do this kind of crazy. It's bad enough we get overwhelmed with attention about not having a man. Then she go and do this and put this kind of man in this mix. In some instances it is okay not to have a man. Especially when his plan doesn't include you, rapper indeed.
We can't always blame it on the perpetrator. I am wondering where the grandmother, aunties, uncles, and a whole lot of other people stand in this situation. Have they all failed to jump into the spotlight because they realize more than we who fell victim to her crying face what this situationship really is all about? They were probably laughing hysterically that anyone else was rallying behind her. They already knew we were jumping on a bandwagon that the wheels were bound to fall off? (he-he).
On this one I'm calling it a wrap. I was bamboozled. But no more. Whatever fate that judge decides to hand down I am sure he will be able to do it without a slap on the back of his hand. The public outcry got this lady a pass and then she showed her a##. The judge should issue a public "I told you so to all the haters who wanted to jump in and do his job!"
I was looking forward to a heart warming update on this one. Since it is around Thanksgiving time an everything to be thankful type story. I just find it incredulous that this woman did not use any of the money to pay for the necessities to sustain her and her children. She can't possibly think this rapper of a baby daddy is going to look out for her if he makes it big! Apparently with him she has invested her time and her money poorly. They both need to get over themselves and put the children's interest first.
Just in case you missed this silly crap over some baby daddy rap dreams, here's a link to an article?: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/mom-left-kids-hot-car-spent-thousands-rap-album-article-1.2014027
Well I'm done. That's all about this situation. It's a w-r-a-p.
I could appreciate it more if he had busted a rap to free her from the bondage of prison when she was incarcerated. How do you look out for someone who completely abandoned you during your time of need? He did not step up. She had to get out and lift him up. I'm thinking, YOU FOOL!
Government assistance was just not enough money for me to sit around and wait to collect. I had to make money. I liked doing things like going to the movies, going to ice shows, taking my children skating, to the park, out of town, buying them clothes, and doing different things with them. They fueled my fire. I always say if it had not been for them I would have been such a pompous person I would not have been able to stand myself. They were more of a help me find the nurturing part of me than being me. When you have young, helpless souls to look out for just the mere fact they cannot do for themselves was always grace sufficient enough to make sure things happened for them. They did not ask to be in this world. If both parents don't step up one just has to.
I'm saying to this sistah, lady please get your act together. Your children need you. We as black women need you. Now I'm going to probably being getting cross eyed looks from people wondering whether or not we all do this kind of crazy. It's bad enough we get overwhelmed with attention about not having a man. Then she go and do this and put this kind of man in this mix. In some instances it is okay not to have a man. Especially when his plan doesn't include you, rapper indeed.
We can't always blame it on the perpetrator. I am wondering where the grandmother, aunties, uncles, and a whole lot of other people stand in this situation. Have they all failed to jump into the spotlight because they realize more than we who fell victim to her crying face what this situationship really is all about? They were probably laughing hysterically that anyone else was rallying behind her. They already knew we were jumping on a bandwagon that the wheels were bound to fall off? (he-he).
On this one I'm calling it a wrap. I was bamboozled. But no more. Whatever fate that judge decides to hand down I am sure he will be able to do it without a slap on the back of his hand. The public outcry got this lady a pass and then she showed her a##. The judge should issue a public "I told you so to all the haters who wanted to jump in and do his job!"
I was looking forward to a heart warming update on this one. Since it is around Thanksgiving time an everything to be thankful type story. I just find it incredulous that this woman did not use any of the money to pay for the necessities to sustain her and her children. She can't possibly think this rapper of a baby daddy is going to look out for her if he makes it big! Apparently with him she has invested her time and her money poorly. They both need to get over themselves and put the children's interest first.
Just in case you missed this silly crap over some baby daddy rap dreams, here's a link to an article?: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/mom-left-kids-hot-car-spent-thousands-rap-album-article-1.2014027
Well I'm done. That's all about this situation. It's a w-r-a-p.
