Monday, February 4, 2013

If You Got It Flaunt It!

There is much controversy behind Beyonce's Super Bowl performance.  Why?  Because apparently there are too many haters in this world.

I see nothing wrong with a strong beautiful woman showing the world just how confident, beautiful, strong, and awe striking she is.  She rocked her performance! 

Someone needs to set the bar for young women that it is okay to strut what you got in a classy way.  She looked great!

It's when people stop looking that there is probably time for concern.  The material of her outfit did not show off any forbidden body parts.  From watching the video I would conclude she was well covered.  I would rather see more young girls try and emulate wearing clothing which is more feminine in design than jeans and sweaters all the time. 

Let someone take the lead in showing girls it is okay to be a woman, dress like a woman, act like a woman, be a woman.  It is okay for women to dress up and be the center of attention. 

I impress upon my daughters all the time to dress like ladies.  I nag them every time I see them not projecting their full feminine appeal to be mindful of how they dress and wear their hair. 

Trust and believe I get it back.  They are my worst critics.  I always recant I did when I was your age.  When I know I am going to be in front of people, especially for a special occasion I am very mindful of how I look.  I know there are times I cancel going places but I don't feel my hair, or attire, etc. is on point the way I would like it to be.  I love clothes and I like to dress. 

If you're among the ranks that got the looks there is nothing wrong with showing it off.  Being overweight myself I wish I could get into an outfit which looked like the one she had on.  It gives me enough inspiration to head to the gym so when the warm months get here I can look a little slimmer.  I don't think I'll ever get back down to that size again.  Why hate?  Appreciate.  Appreciate that we have a young woman who doesn't have the news media following down behind her for all the wrong kind of stories.  We have a positive young woman who has her head on straight and looks great. I didn't see the performance as it was happening but heard so much about it today I checked it out on YouTube.  I was out skating with a young woman (my eldest granddaughter) that I hope she knows it is okay to be a beautiful young woman and most importantly to flaunt it all she wants in moderation.  Confidence is queen.