My word of advice is always to stay with your wife. The woman who you would meet that would agree to be in a relationship with a married man is not worth her weight in dirt. The time you're spending trying to court another woman is the money and time you could be spending improving your relationship with your wife. What you need to do with your spare time is to find a good respectable hobby. The only perfect crime is one no one else knows about. As long as you are involved with another person you are chancing the spread of your infidelity to the world. Does your wife deserve to be tormented because of your wrongdoing?
The ultimate disgrace is when a married man has a baby by a woman who is not his wife. I feel sorry for the wife who has entrusted her life to such an ungrateful fool. Just think about how you would feel if your wife was carrying the child of another man for nine months. You have another woman carrying around your child for nine months and then the drama with child support and all the other financial, personal, and other responsibilities kicking in. Needless to say being unfaithful to the one you committed to be faithful to ads additional undue stress and drama to a marriage. Do you look like a bigger man to your friends? No. They now are probably the very person whispering reminders of how you cannot be trusted into your wife's ear every chance they get. So again, the code word for me is wife. If you have one it equates there will be no relationship for us in my life. Why have a leg when you can have the whole man. I will never settle for less.
So if you feel the urge to cheat on your wife. Please don't choose me.
