Saturday, May 26, 2012

Rich Man Where Are You? I Want A Rich Man!

Yes I could handle having a rich man.  You may be thinking from reading the title I want a rich man in terms of money.  No let me assure you even though that would be really, really nice I am speaking of a man who is rich in qualities, characteristics, and other areas money cannot buy.

I want a man who is rich in warmth.  I want a man whose spirit can help to fuel my fire without either one of us getting burnt.  One who is loving, caring, and kind and not afraid to show it.  I like warmth both physically and emotionally.

I want a man who is rich in discipline.  A man who has self-control and knows how to maintain it.

I want a man who is rich in his outpouring of deeds to others.  A man who can give of himself not only to uplift me but to uplift others by sharing his talents, strengths, and abilities.

I want a man who is rich in humility.  I don't want a man whose male pride gets in the way.  I want a man who I can help reach new heights and levels more than he can receive.  I want a man who doesn't have to be on guard against us building upon a stronger foundation together for better tomorrows.

I want a man who is rich in intellect.  A man who is financially savvy, business savvy, and has a little street smarts.

I want a man who is rich in saying "how are you", "how was your day", "let me know what's going on with you".  One who is rich in showing he is caring and understands me in so many ways.

I want a man who is rich in communication.  Communication is key in most any relationship and I want a man who is rich in getting his point across.  A man who can let me know we need to turn right instead of going to the left in our relationship.  Someone who can say everything is good when it is and say we need to fix this when our relationship needs mending.  One who doesn't go and complain to his best friend but lets me be his best friend.

I want a man who is rich in his love for his family.  A man who knows a man's place is to be the king of his kingdom.  A man who realizes love is not about control it is about maintaining control.

I want a man who is rich in giving and taking.  I am a giver and I want a man who is receptive to receiving.  A gentleman by nature who doesn't take things for granted.  Who knows I give out of the goodness of my heart and I don't want to receive anything from anyone other than a cheerful giver.  I most treasure the simple things in life and the simple gestures which pack a whole lot of punch.

Most importantly I want a man who is rich in his faith.  I want a man whose love for God comes first in his life.  I want a man who the only second I play is next to his love for God.

Yes indeed I want a rich man but for the richest reasons.  I feel a man meant for me can provide riches beyond measure.  It may not be today, or even tomorrow that we come together as one.  I'm just hoping it is on God's time.  Until that time I'm enjoying my time and taking things one day at a time.  I'm not rushing into anything.  If it happens great, if it doesn't happen I'll live.

I'm am too thankful, too full of praise, and too blessed to be stressed about not having a man.  I personally feel just finding a man to appease what others say is not for me.  I'm straight.  I love men.  There are deadlines for a lot of things but I don't have a deadline for having a man in my life.  I don't feel any pressure and none is not welcomed from intruders.

Yes I would like to have a man to wine and dine with to travel with and spend time with.  However, until I feel I've found that man I am happy being alone.  I don't have any problems with myself.  I am at the age where I don't want to just settle.  I want a rich, healthy relationship with someone who is rich in so many ways.  No need to worry about me not having companionship.  I have nothing against companionship.  I have everything against jumping into a relationship or putting myself under any kind of pressure to get into one.

Right now, trust and believe I'm loving life just the way it is. I'm not waiting on the perfect man just the man who is perfect for me.  I am a very understanding, patient, and kind person and I want a man who is not too rich to receive it.

Lynne